On this episode: Zak, Elizabeth and Jamilah answer a question about a mouse, a skateboard, a ball pit, and a lie. It’s as amazing as it sounds.

We’ll help this mom out and then check in and share what’s on our minds this week. Then, if you’re hanging out for the Slate Plus Playground, we’re talking about saying no.

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Zak’s check-in: Feeling impossible Elizabeth’s check-in: The PTA chickens come home to roost Jamilah’s check-in: To go or not to go or to go somewhere else

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Podcast produced by Maura Currie.

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