This Father's Day article in The New York Times features a collection of cherished text messages exchanged between readers and their fathers. The texts highlight the diverse ways fathers express love, support, and humor. Some dads sent corny jokes and puns, while others offered words of wisdom or simply checked in to show their care. The article showcases the unique and often unexpected ways fathers communicate with their children through technology.
The collection of texts provides a touching portrayal of the varied and meaningful ways fathers show their love and support to their children, revealing a depth of emotion and connection often hidden behind simple words.
The dad text can be a beautiful thing. Sometimes, itās a barely decipherable jumble of emojis and punctuation that makes you scratch your head and smile. Other times, itās a nugget of advice or a few words of support, right when you need them most.
In honor of Fatherās Day, The Times asked readers to submit their most cherished dad texts. More than 900 of you wrote in sharing your fathersā corny jokes, goofy photos and expressions of unconditional love.
Here are some of our favorite submissions, which have been lightly edited for clarity.
Dad
Yes, but some insist I am a square.
Dad taught intermediate school language arts in Brooklyn for about 30 years, so the combination of his facility with the English language and dealing with kids in that age range probably honed his sense of humor.
Jesse Smith, 46 East Windsor, N.J.
Are you OK? Your texts are confusing.
Dad
Yes. Am OK. I hate texting. It confuses my fingers.
My dad was known for his sarcastic, grumpy texts ā especially when he wasnāt feeling well, which was often. Heād use dry humor to let me know he was OK, so I wouldnāt worry.
Lisa McCarty, 45 Washington D.C.
Dad
Hi sweetie. I know you are resting now, or at least I hope you are. This is one of the happiest days of my life. I am so proud and happy for you. I know you will be a fantastic mother.
My dadās not the most emotive person, but the birth of his granddaughter brought out a side of him Iāve never seen before. Their relationship is beautiful and has enriched my own relationship with my father, too.
Anjali Kidder, 36 Bainbridge Island, Wash.
Dad
Can a kangaroo jump higher than the Empire State Building?
Dad
Of course it can. The Empire State Building can't jump.
Dad
How much does it cost Santa to park his sleigh?
Dad
Nothing. Itās on the house. š
These dad jokes have been going on since I was in high school ā 10 years of him texting them to make me laugh in the middle of the day.
Jess Pechie, 26 Charlotte, N.C.
Dad
My dad and I started to send pictures of everyday objects that look like hearts to each other ā rocks, shadows, broken tortilla chips. Sometimes itās a bit of a stretch, but as Iām squinting at the piece of popcorn on the floor, I remember how much he loves me.
Addie-Grace Cook, 21 Columbia, S.C.
Dad
My dad āspidey senseā is on high with you.
You have a lot on your plate. If I can help you frame decisions, let me know.
If all you need is me to say that I know you are a strong, smart woman, and Iām certain youāll make good decisions, you now have it in writing.
As I was experiencing heavy internal debate and agony around the future of a long-term relationship, my dad sent this text. I broke up with my partner the next day.
Sarah Grace Dougherty, 29 New York City
Dad
Richie. Usual caution about driving in the rain. You'll understand when you're a
Dad
āDrive safeā is a fairly common comment when Iām driving to see him across town. He sends the more descriptive āDrive carefullyā texts during big rain storms. I am now the father of a 1-year-old girl.
Dick Fink, 35 Los Angeles
You enjoyed? We are thoroughly married!
Dad
Enjoyed?!? Does a bear š© in the š³š³š³??
My dad was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2010. When I got engaged in 2018, it was unclear whether he would make it to our wedding. My husband and I decided to get legally married in his hospital room after his second stem cell transplant. He went into full remission in time for us to throw a big wedding celebration. Sadly his cancer came back six months later, and he passed away at the end of 2020.
Sarah Wilbanks, 35 Brooklyn, N.Y.
I moved home for a while ā my dad does not typically like to use his phone, but he found it useful for contacting me in the evenings.
Dad
Dad
Played poker all night and stole treats
Dad
We caught Willow cheating with an ace under his paw
I dropped my cats off at my parentsā house to cat-sit while I was on vacation. My dad would stage scenes of the cats like this one of them gambling for cat treats.
Elizabeth Yardley, 28 Philadelphia
Dad
Iām very proud of you Brooke!
Even though you raised a communist?
Dad
More commies should be like you.
My dad is a staunch Republican, leading to many political arguments between us. After DOGE eliminated my federal job in global health, he chose his child when it counted.
Brooke Aksnes, 34 Atlanta
Dad
Everything is great. We started rocking at 12:05. No tears, she just fell asleep in my arms a few minutes ago.
Dad
My dad watched my baby so that I could have lunch with a friend. How lucky am I?
Melissa Mayer, 34 Tacoma, Wash.
Dad
I am tempted to say ābe fearless,ā which is what everyone tells talented kids your age. But itās natural to be fearful! You are taking on the world. You are 20! And you are so, so special!
So itās fine to be fearful. Itās fine to be worried. Itās fine to be lonely right now. And itās fine to wish that āthings were the way they used to be.ā All that is fine.
Trust in this amazing world, Princess. Follow your heart and your head wherever they take you, but donāt do it halfway or timidly. Go for it. You will be so happy you did. You WILL be happy. It might take a little longer than you (and I!) hoped because weāre both impatient for goodness in our lives. But luckily, the world is full of goodness. Like you.
I was 20 and feeling like I was doing everything wrong. My dad always says exactly the right thing.
Madi Himelfarb, 29 Brooklyn, N.Y.
Dad
My dad always texts me about the moon so wherever I am I can go out and see it too.
Helen Amon, 20 Princeton, N.J.
My dad used to stop by my house most days to drop off my son from school. He is a man of very few words, but heās always here for me.
Dad
Dad
My Indian dadās obsession with mangoes is next level and he loves to share with everyone.
Shreya Mehta, 39 Rockville, Md.
Dad
You getting it done today? Checking boxes? Pushing people out of the way? Primero tu. Segundo tu. Y finalmente, tu!!!! Besos y abrazos. Papa
My father is a Brooklyn-raised Puerto Rican actor. Whatever volume you are imagining for this text, raise it by 100 percent.
Alicia Lopez, 22 New York City
Dad
We got stuck in Santa Cruz needing quarters for a parking meter. Lucky thing I had my wallet with me with change in it.
Dad
Omg that thing is hideous
I sewed the āwalletā for him when I was about 8 years old. I had forgotten about it until he sent me the photo.
Halsey Hoster, 33 Palo Alto, Calif.
Dad
Hi sweetie, just another thought ā you havenāt been crazy or wrong to hope, that too is a good human thing. And donāt ever feel bad about trying to make the relationship work. Always better to try for what and who you care about as much as you can. It doesnāt mean youāll be stuck in this really hard place forever, or that you wonāt be able to let go when you need to. New days will come and new things can happen and some will be good ā and better for your being there because you really are wonderful. ā¤ļø
Thank you, Dad. I needed to hear that. Sending you a big, big hug.
My dad is a soothing balm on my hardest days.
Laura Nelson, 32 Portland, Ore.
Dad
PLEASE get to the airport a little bit early. PLEASE. Can't wait to see you in 10 hours. SAFE, SAFE TRAVELS. ā¤ļø
My dad asked me to fly back home for a weekend because he missed me.
Logan Light, 29 New York City
Dad
Sara we got the smartest and most beautiful grandchildren ever. Me and mom are so blessed and our kids are pretty special too. 16 below this morning.
My dad, who died this year at 85, was a farmer. Every single text from him, even the gushy ones, included a weather report.
Sara Spohr, 50 Minneapolis
Dad
I like you almost as much as integration by parts.
Dad
Thatās a pretty high honor!
My dad is a math professor.
Irene Raich, 19 Fayetteville, Ark.
Dad
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Dad
My dad regularly sends photos of clothes he wants to buy his granddaughter. Every time, he enlists a stranger to hold said clothing rather than just laying it down. I now have eight yearsā worth of arm photos.
Dad
Thanks for calling. Itās great to catch up and we canāt wait to see you Friday. Love you kid
Dad
Great. Good luck. Let us know how you make out. Love you kid
Dad
Sorry youāre not feeling well. Hope you feel better. Love you kid
āLove you kid.ā Thatās my dadās line.
Ashley Corso, 22 Alexandria, Va.
Dad
Sydney, I miss you and Love You so much! Have a good day tomorrow. You are the Sunshine of my life. Dad
My dad and I live in different states and I donāt get to see him often. He makes it a point to send me a text anytime he is thinking about me.
Sydney Stevenson, 24 New York City
Dad
My dad sent this photo of me as a kid, as a completely random mid-week check-in. Clearly, he helped me write it in the sand.
Olivia Childs, 26 New York City
Dad
Our daughter had just taught her dad to text the day before. We were headed out for a boat ride that afternoon and Bob likes to get a jump on getting ready. I am sure Kate was regretting teaching him how to text.
Bonnie Sue Jordan, 65 Millington, N.J.
Dad
I know. You couldnāt be a better person to butt dial.
My dad is the only person I know that frequently butt dials people in 2025.
Shannon Salembier, 39 Montpelier, Vt.
Dad
Dad
We helped my dad rescue Lenny the dog 10 days after my mom passed. The dog has been a blessing, a reason for him to text us, proof of life that he is OK, a reason for him to wake up and talk to neighbors.
Stephanie Minkoff, 45 Arlington, Va.
Dad
Is that a weather system?
I announced my second pregnancy to my family by sending an ultrasound photo in the group chat. My dad thought the ultrasound was a āweather system.ā
Holly Corbett, 35 Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Dad
Hisugaridontknowhowtospacejustwantedtotellyouiluveyouandifyouwanttomeetforlunchletmeknowpoydad
This is the very first text my dad ever sent me, from his flip phone in 2014. We did in fact meet for lunch, where I showed him how to add spaces. āPoyā meant āproud of youā ā his own organic creation.
Shawna Parks, 42 Oklahoma City
Dad
Also, take time for yourself. That means doing nothing ā sitting under a tree, reading a novel, browsing in a book shop. Make some slack in your life so you can take 5 hours to do a 2 hour assignment if you feel like it! Some time to empty your mind and not think.
My dad sent this to me during a tumultuous time at college. He is not one to overly involve himself, volunteer constant advice or push me in a certain direction. When he does impart advice, it is always so needed and really hits home.
Emma Pettit, 27 New York City
Dad
Hereās some free range daffodils to cheer up the day.
Dad
My dad takes a daily walk in the woods. He is always sending pictures of the wildlife or scenery he comes across.
Juliann Koehnke, 39 Bend, Ore.
Dad
Sean. Do you want me to pick you up?
He always begins his text with my name and then a period.
Sean Ruddy, 26 Washington D.C.
Dad
Unsuspecting son. Dad waiting with bated breath. Sets the perfect trap.
I use his jokes all the time with friends who come from serious households. Heās brought dad jokes to dozens of deprived children across the country.
Andrew Schmidt, 28 Chicago
Dad
Nothing represents a fatherās love quite like a heart-shaped chicken cutlet!
Lindsay Guim, 30 Brooklyn, N.Y.
Dad
Merry Christmas to all and look at what your sister Pippa did to our new tree. XOXO M&P
Dad
My dad regularly refers to his cats as my sisters.
Aimee Fountain, 44 Santa Cruz, Calif.
Dad
Happy new year!
May your misgivings be only small bumps in the road Joy like warm raindrops of a wintry storm While our friendships clothe us on cold days
My dad died in February at age 79 after a 15-year battle with lung cancer. His small messages that would show up on my phone are what I miss most.
Rachael Conlin Levy, 54 Seattle
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