Our other finalists explored a wide range of subjects, from wrestling with racial hate, to body image and platonic love, to playlist flirtations on Spotify. We plan to publish the winning essays throughout May and June.
Congratulations to Ms. Faraj and the contest finalists, listed below, and our gratitude to all who participated.
β Daniel Jones, editor of Modern Love, and Miya Lee, editor of Modern Love projects
WINNER
Layla Kinjawi Faraj, Barnard College, Class of 2025, βMy Plea for a Sixth Love Languageβ
FINALISTS
Lily Goldberg, Williams College, Class of 2022, βI Bet You Think These Songs Are About Youβ
August Singer, Reed College, Class of 2022, βNo Longer My Motherβs Daughterβ
Joyce Juhee Chung, New York University, Class of 2023, βMay We Please Just Date Without Hate?β
Abby Comey, College of William & Mary, Class of 2022, βNot Every Break Up is About Being Brokenβ
Ife Olatona, Howard University, Class of 2024, βSingleness Is Not a Stigmaβ
Tatiana Jackson-Saitz, University of Chicago, Class of 2024, βA Texting Lifeline During a Difficult Timeβ
Kyleigh McPeek, Stanford University, Class of 2024
Contest readers: Danya Issawi and Emma Grillo. See previous contest essays and the entire Modern Love collection.
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