This article recounts the author's experience at a Christian men's retreat, exploring the underlying reasons for Donald Trump's popularity among some Christian men. The author, initially apprehensive about the retreat's potential alignment with Trump's ideology, discovers a focus on shadow work, self-integration, and unconditional love.
The retreat emphasized "shadow work," a Jungian concept involving confronting repressed aspects of oneself. Participants shared deeply personal vulnerabilities, creating a space of unconditional love and acceptance. This experience highlighted the need for men to address their unmet emotional needs.
The retreat challenged traditional notions of masculinity. Participants defined true masculinity not through material possessions or dominance, but through self-accountability, vulnerability, and selfless service. The emphasis was on mutual support and mentorship within a Christian community.
The author draws a parallel between the retreat's approach and Trump's appeal to voters. Both offer a sense of belonging and direction, albeit with contrasting approaches. While the retreat fostered emotional growth, Trump's appeal relies on power and dominance. The lack of a clear progressive alternative makes Trump's offer appealing to men searching for belonging and purpose.
The article concludes by contrasting the retreat's emphasis on unconditional love with a patriarchal vision of masculinity. It questions the absence of a clear progressive alternative for men seeking emotional support and connection.